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The Benefits of Silence for a productive and meaningful life

Oct 30, 2021 | Communication Skills, Deploy Yourself, Emotional Intelligence | 3 comments

Let me start with a story to illustrate the benefits of silence There was an old man whose most beloved possession was a watch left to him by his late wife. He treasured the timepiece and had it on his person wherever he went.  One day, in anticipation of his...

How To Run Effective And Quick Meetings? Are You Making These Mistakes?

Sep 11, 2021 | Communication Skills | 0 comments

Meetings can be among the biggest time and energy suckers in an organization if you let them be. According to a survey done by the Harvard Business Review, over 70% of senior managers consider meetings to be unproductive and ineffective. Additionally, 65% of the...

36 Communication Quotes for Better Relationships & Leadership

Aug 15, 2021 | Communication Skills | 0 comments

Please find below my favourite collection of quotes and one-liners about effective and deep communication, building strong relationships – both at work and in life, and effective team management and leadership. “Paradoxically, the ability to be alone is the...

Verbal Communication & Leadership Language For Leaders

Aug 6, 2021 | Communication Skills, Leadership and Management | 0 comments

Painters have a brush, digital artists use Photoshop, and musicians have their instruments to produce their results. Similarly, leaders have language – to produce results in their teams and organisations via having verbal communication. Ask yourself- What do...

How To Communicate and Handle Difficult Conversations as an Introvert?

Jun 24, 2021 | Communication Skills, Emotional Intelligence | 0 comments

Introverts are comfortable in being by themselves. Instead of getting energy from others, introverts draw it from solitude and quiet places. As a result, resolving conflicts and navigating tough conversations tend to be difficult and scary since it forces them to have...

How to Answer People’s Questions To Serve Them Best

Mar 3, 2021 | Communication Skills | 0 comments

Whether it is from those who work under us or our coworkers, we are all faced with questions in our daily lives. Of course, not all questions may warrant a response. But when a reasonable person genuinely enquires about something, it is important to listen and respond...

9 Steps To Make The Most Out Of Difficult Conversations

Oct 22, 2020 | Communication Skills | 0 comments

“The right word at the right time will unlock the door to treasures – the wrong one will close it forever” – Rasheed Ogunlaru Think about a discussion you have been planning to have with your manager. For example, to ask for a raise. Perhaps as a manager,...

Can We Walk in Another Person’s Shoes? Why Empathy Might Be The Most Important Human Ability?

Jun 1, 2020 | Communication Skills, Emotional Intelligence | 0 comments

On a recent archaeological dig in Man Bac in what is now northern Vietnam, a team of researchers made a remarkable discovery. While unearthing the remains of some Stone Age people who were buried 4,000 years ago, they discovered one young man who had been placed in...

The Ultimate Guide To Interpersonal Communication & Difficult Conversations

Mar 25, 2020 | Communication Skills | 0 comments

This guide contains everything you need to know about dealing with interpersonal communication – conflict, disagreements, and other difficult conversations – be it at work or outside it. How to listen well. Why conflicts are natural? What to do, and what...

How to Communicate When the Going Gets Tough, and Things Get Messy?

Mar 20, 2020 | Communication Skills | 0 comments

The world is unpredictable and full of chaos and change. Many things can cause worry and tension in an organization. Mergers & acquisitions, leadership wrangles, controversies, and pandemics such as Covid-19 are just some of the many things that can cause a crisis...

Nonverbal Communication – How To Listen To What Is Not Being Said?

Dec 17, 2019 | Communication Skills, Emotional Intelligence | 0 comments

“When the eyes say one thing, and the tongue another, a practiced man relies on the language of the first.”― Ralph Waldo Emerson In recent years, technology has brought in a big change in our ways of communication. With the best tech devices and the most vibrant...

How to Ask and Get the Feedback You Need Without Any Stress and Awkwardness?

Jul 3, 2018 | Communication Skills, Deploy Yourself | 0 comments

“I want to give you some feedback.” If you are like most people, once you hear the above statement, your heart will start to beat a little faster, your palms might begin to sweat, and in certain situations, you might even begin to shake. Feedback can make anyone...

How to Give Feedback Effectively? What to do Before, During and After a Feedback Conversation?

Jun 19, 2018 | Communication Skills, Deploy Yourself | 0 comments

Giving good quality feedback is an important skill to have in any organization. Doing so regularly with our peers gives everyone an accurate understanding of how they are doing at work, and what needs to change/improve. However, I have always felt that the importance...

What is Feedback? And The Benefits of Feedback for Your Team / Company You Never Knew?

Jun 19, 2018 | Communication Skills, Deploy Yourself | 0 comments

It is the end of the quarter. And it is feedback season again! Feedback is a word many people dread and it makes them uncomfortable, while for others it is a tool to reflect on and improve performance. Having been on both ends of the feedback spectrum over my career,...

Focus on Interests, Not on Positions – The One Tip Which Can Make Every Conversation More Productive

Nov 27, 2017 | Communication Skills, Deploy Yourself | 0 comments

There was once only one orange left in a kitchen and two chefs were fighting over it.”I need that orange!””Yes, but I need that orange as well !”Time was running out and they both needed an orange to finish their particular recipes for the...

What To Do If You Can’t Achieve Consensus in a Conflict?

Nov 15, 2017 | Communication Skills, Deploy Yourself | 0 comments

In the previous four articles, I have written about what conflicts are, what not to do when they happen, how to prepare to solve them through a conversation, and some practical tips to follow during the conversation itself. However, doing all this doesn’t guarantee...

Eight Practical Tips for Making A Conflict Resolution Conversation More Effective

Nov 8, 2017 | Communication Skills, Deploy Yourself | 0 comments

So you have prepared well (read my previous article), and are walking into a conflict resolution conversation with trust and respect for the other person. You have established ground rules for the conversation, and you know your BATNA. Even with all this preparation,...

How to Prepare for a Conflict Resolution Conversation?

Nov 6, 2017 | Communication Skills, Deploy Yourself | 0 comments

A conflict resolution conversation is one of the most critical conversations in any organization. The success or failure of this conversation will determine how the inherent energy in a conflict will be used, and how the relationship between the involved parties will...

What Not To Do When Conflicts Happen?

Nov 2, 2017 | Communication Skills, Deploy Yourself | 0 comments

We all deal with conflicts in the workplace. In the last 12 years of my professional career, I have had my own share of conflicts. That has left me with some learnings about how to navigate through them successfully. This article is the second in a series of articles....

Understanding Conflicts Better – The First Step to Conflict Resolution

Oct 31, 2017 | Communication Skills, Deploy Yourself | 0 comments

CONFLICT! Is that a word that scares you? Is that something that makes you run in the opposite direction? Do you wish you had the skills to handle conflicts better? If you are like most people, you are no fan of conflicts and have often been caught up in the maze of a...
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Recent Articles

  • Leadership Journeys [68] -Timothy Golden – “Learn the job of the human above me and teach my job to the human below me”
  • Leadership Journeys [67] – Deepali Singh – “If a woman can give birth to a baby, then what else could be more challenging?”
  • Issue #74, 14 Mar 2023 – Short or long-term thinking? An image that says it all
  • Leadership Journeys [66] – Nick McQuire – “Learn it all as opposed to know it all”
  • Leadership Journeys [65] – Gerbert Vandenberghe – “The bigger the company grows, the less I am involved.”
  • Leadership Journeys [64] – Eva Poppe – “When you get out of your comfort zone, you learn so much about yourself.”
  • Issue #73, 28 Feb 2023 – Why you should never think twice about investing in yourself?
  • Leadership Journeys [63] – Maria Pennanen – “Over the years you become more forgiving to yourself.”
  • Leadership Journeys [62] – Violetta – “If you are an entrepreneur & unhappy, your company will suffer.”
  • Leadership Journeys [61] – Patrick Strauss – “There are so many opportunities for organizations to do better.”
  • Issue #72, 14 Feb 2023 – Why Love and Leadership are synonyms?
  • Leadership Journeys [60] – Anastasia – “My best ideas come either during meditation or after meditation.”
  • Leadership Journeys [59] – Sudhanshu Ahuja – “All the companies that I applied for a job and got rejected, are now our customers”
  • Leadership Journeys [58] – Dinesh Juneja – “Partnerships are the backbone of running a company.”
  • Issue #71, 31 Jan 2023 – Can we be real and face what we do not want to face?
  • Leadership Journeys [57] – Marc Munier – “If people aren’t willing to accept you for the way that you are, then that’s their problem”
  • Can’t Stay Silent [04] – There Is No Forcing In Nature
  • Leadership Journeys [56] – Ian Fishwick – “Everybody wants the best people, but what I say is, get the best out of people.”
  • Leadership Journeys [55] – Philip Johnston – “Blitzscaling a startup is stressful, but also pretty exhilarating and fun.”
  • Issue #70, 17 Jan 2023 – How to increase your impact & well-being by doing less?
  • Can’t Stay Silent [03] – Can We Face What We Do Not Want To Face?
  • Leadership Journeys [54] – Steve Midgley – “You have to be prepared to stand up for what you believe in”
  • Leadership Journeys [53] – Marius Ciavola – “Trust and inspire instead of command and control.”
  • Leadership Journeys [52] – Bharanidharan – “Whatever you have, make the best out of it.”
  • Leadership Journeys [51] – Thomas Van Eeckhout – “The CEO is not the most important person in the company”

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