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The Benefits of Silence for a productive and meaningful life

Oct 30, 2021 | Communication Skills, Deploy Yourself, Emotional Intelligence | 3 comments

Let me start with a story to illustrate the benefits of silence There was an old man whose most beloved possession was a watch left to him by his late wife. He treasured the timepiece and had it on his person wherever he went.  One day, in anticipation of his...

The Choice of Responsibility, And How Is It Different From Accountability?

Sep 27, 2021 | Deploy Yourself, Leadership and Management | 0 comments

“Politicians are of no use.”  “Bureaucrats just slow everyone down.” “The new CEO is no good. Look at what he did in his previous company.” While the above sentences don’t directly mention “responsibility”, all of them are blaming people for not taking responsibility...

5 Steps To Deploy Yourself And Live An Authentic Life

Jan 14, 2021 | Deploy Yourself, Life | 0 comments

A lot of us, especially in our youthful days, struggle with how to deploy ourselves in the world. Instead of being true to ourselves and charting our own unique course, we tend to follow paths that others have decided on our behalf. However, if we take the long-term...

How To Use Both Conscious and Subconscious Mind to Maximise Creativity And Solve Our Biggest Problems?

Nov 10, 2020 | Deploy Yourself | 0 comments

We would all agree that our mind is our most important asset. The human brain is often called the most sophisticated machine in the universe. Everything we do is only possible because of our brains. Be it writing a letter, loving our family members, playing...

How to Powerfully Step into the New Year 2023

Nov 2, 2020 | Deploy Yourself, Life | 0 comments

I think it was 1989 when I, for the first time, realized that the 1st of January was a special day. The biggest change for me, one that always took a few weeks to get used to, was to write 1990 instead of 1989 in our school notebooks daily. While the whole world...

5 Valuable Life Lessons Struggle and Hardship Teaches You

Oct 30, 2020 | Deploy Yourself, Life | 0 comments

When faced with difficulties as human beings, our natural reaction is to avoid the situation rather than power through it. Years of evolution have wired our brains to seek the comfort of the familiar and avoid the discomfort that comes with new and challenging...

8 Things Leaders Can Do To Create a High Trust, High Engagement, and High-Performance Team

Oct 15, 2020 | Deploy Yourself, Leadership and Management | 0 comments

Many people have a rather simplistic view of how people and teams perform. People don’t perform based on their abilities alone. Any person’s performance is the sum total of their own abilities and effort plus the prevalent culture in the company (and team). A...

Want To Improve Performance? Before Giving Feedback, Give People These Four Things

Oct 10, 2020 | Deploy Yourself, Leadership and Management | 0 comments

Do you use feedback as a tool to improve performance? If your answer is yes, you are not alone. Most managers see (and use) feedback, most of which is negative or critical, as a tool to improve performance. If you give positive feedback too along with the negative...

6 Reasons People Are So Unhappy At Work

Oct 5, 2020 | Deploy Yourself, Leadership and Management | 0 comments

According to this study cited in Forbes, more than half of the US workforce is unhappy. Gallup surveys show that nearly two-thirds of employees are disengaged at work. In my own experience of the last 15 years and the numerous stories I have heard from people in...

5 Simple (But Not Easy) Steps Every Manager Can Take To Improve Work Culture

Sep 10, 2020 | Coaching, Deploy Yourself, Leadership and Management | 0 comments

If you are lucky enough to be someone’s employer, then you have a moral obligation to make sure people do look forward to coming to work in the morning. – John Mackey I have been leading teams for 12 years in companies such as Yahoo, Booking.com, etc in India...

How To Respond To Anger Like The Adults We Are Supposed To Be?

Aug 25, 2020 | Deploy Yourself, Emotional Intelligence | 0 comments

In my previous article on anger, we saw that anger hides what we care about. If we look deeper and take the time to introspect, anger can tell us what we really value, and which value has been violated that resulted in the anger. Anger can communicate a lot of...

Why True Joy and Real Happiness Doesn’t Come from Winning But From A Dignified Struggle?

Aug 20, 2020 | Coaching, Deploy Yourself | 1 comment

Winning and Losing Is Everywhere Most of us grow up in this world in a culture where the idea of winning and losing is omnipresent. Movies often celebrate the victory of the good over the evil. We cheer for our teams in sports when they win. We strive to get better...

3 Ways Strong Leaders Manage Intimidating Employees With Poise and Confidence

Aug 15, 2020 | Deploy Yourself, Leadership and Management | 0 comments

If you are a leader or manage a team, it is not uncommon to come across someone in your team who intimidates you. This might be because they are better than you in a particular skill and that brings your insecurities to the fore. Or it might be because the person...

5 Unconscious Ways We Limit Our Own Freedom

Aug 10, 2020 | Coaching, Deploy Yourself, Life | 1 comment

I still remember that morning of excitement. It was supposed to an relaxing long drive in my new car, but I had no idea how the day would turn up. As I started the engine and pushed down on the accelerator, I got busy admiring the posh interiors and the sophisticated...

Busting The Myth of Individual Performance. A Radical New Equation For Improving Performance At Work

Jul 30, 2020 | Deploy Yourself, Leadership and Management | 1 comment

What causes employees to put themselves between a customer and bullets from a terrorist attack? It is very difficult to imagine anybody valuing their work so much that they put their lives at stake to protect customers. Yet, that is what many employees of the Taj...

How I Made My Laziness and Procrastination Productive, and Used It To Read Over 250 Books In the Last 5 Years?

Jul 20, 2020 | Deploy Yourself | 1 comment

The dictionary defines procrastination as “the action of delaying or postponing something”. There was a time when I used to believe that procrastination is a bad habit and that only bad or weak people procrastinate. However, after reading a lot of psychology and...

5 Research Backed Reasons Taking Regular Breaks Can Help You Get More Done

Jul 5, 2020 | Coaching, Deploy Yourself | 1 comment

If you have a lot to do, take regular breaks. Find out about the counterintuitive advice of taking breaks to get more done. Are you surging ahead in life? Is your life becoming too fast for comfort? Why not take a break? What did I just say? Do you think you have a...

The 7 Most Powerful Investments You Can Make. They Are Not What You Think

Jun 30, 2020 | Coaching, Deploy Yourself | 1 comment

What comes to your mind when you are asked about the most powerful investments you should make? Is it stocks? Is it bonds? Or a new house? Real estate is the safest investment, you might have heard. If you ask me, I would say, neither! Over the course of my life, with...

Why Unreasonable Goals Are Better For Your Growth And Success?

Jun 25, 2020 | Coaching, Deploy Yourself | 0 comments

Have you ever achieved something you aimed for still felt like “meh”? Do you feel “empty” on the inside despite being successful by usual standards? Here is how to achieve meaningful success by overcoming our deep psychological need to play it...

51 Powerful Questions to Ask in Different Situations, and The Art of Asking Powerful Questions

Jun 19, 2020 | Deploy Yourself, Questioning | 2 comments

After leading teams for the last decade and a half, if there is one skill that has made the biggest difference in my ability to improve individual and team performance, it has been my ability to Ask Powerful Questions. This is not to say that other skills like...
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Recent Articles

  • Issue #80, 5 June 2023 – 5 questions to make each month better than the previous one
  • Leadership Journeys [96] – Brian J Esposito – “Money is a byproduct of good people doing good work.”
  • Leadership Journeys [95] – Luis Gonçalves- “You cannot be attached to your own ideas.”
  • Leadership Journeys [94] – Rosemarie Diegnan – “Your lows are when you learn how committed you are.”
  • Leadership Journeys [93] – Akhil Sivanandan – “I just couldn’t sit by and do nothing”
  • Leadership Journeys [92] – Nicole Grinnell – “It is easy as an entrepreneur to go high as a kite and to the bottom of despair”
  • Leadership Journeys [91] – Shikha Gupta – “Collaborating instead of Competing is the most important leadership skill”
  • Leadership Journeys [90] – Sanjay Borkar – “You have to involve all your stakeholders in your dreams”
  • Issue #79, 18 May 2023 – Why you should celebrate more?
  • Leadership Journeys [89] – Glenn Puolos – “When I set my sights on things, I can get very focused on following up and sticking to the task”
  • Leadership Journeys [88] – Chinmay Bhanagay – “Music helps me zone out, balance myself and get back the next day”
  • Leadership Journeys [87] – David Rodriguez – “We must not be slaves of what we are doing.”
  • Leadership Journeys [86] – Mohan Thas – “For a leader, it is important to give employees the freedom and the advice they need to get the work done.”
  • Leadership Journeys [85] – Smiti Bhatt Deorah – “Be comfortable with the idea of being uncomfortable”
  • Issue #78, 9 May 2023 – You can do hard. You have got what it takes.
  • Leadership Journeys [84] – Markus Weubben – “You need to surround yourself with people who are better at things than you are.”
  • Leadership Journeys [83] – Gabriel Jarroson – “On Saturday & Sunday I’m gone. There is nothing you can do to reach me.”
  • Leadership Journeys [82] – Philippe Birker – “The real skill of a leader is to acknowledge their own flaws and mistakes.”
  • Leadership Journeys [81] – Leslie Kivit – “We need to restore trust in companies”
  • Leadership Journeys [80] – Caleb Avery – “When I’m getting anxious and overwhelmed, it is because I am spending too much time on things that I have no ability to change.”
  • Issue #77, 25 April 2023 – If you appreciate someone, tell them right then. Don’t Wait.
  • Leadership Journeys [79] – Shay David- “In our life as entrepreneurs, we are always high on life.”
  • Leadership Journeys [78] – Manish Godha – “There is no right or wrong way to be a leader/entrepreneur.”
  • Leadership Journeys [77] – Sooraj Jayaraman – “A leader is a normal person who has the ability to find Superman in his team.”
  • Leadership Journeys [76] – Manoj Dhanotiya – “I have nothing to loose and whatever I have is enough”

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