2013

  • लो आ गया मैं वोट मांगने

    अपनी बनावटी मुस्कान दिखाने
    गली गली शोर मचाने ।
    पांच साल पूरे होने के बहाने
    लो आ गया मैं वोट मांगने ।।

    Make it Count
    Make it Count

    बिन वजह झूठी हमदर्दी जताने
    साथ में मगरमच्छ के आंसू बहाने ।
    पुराने जख्मो को फिर खुरेदने
    लो आ गया मैं वोट मांगने ।।

    झूठे वादों कसमो के गुण गाने
    उज्जवल भविष्य के सपने दिखाने ।
    सबके जनतांत्रिक अधिकार को चुराने
    लो आ गया मैं वोट मांगने ।।

    अपने नेताओ की तारीफ करने
    दूसरो के अछे कर्मो को अपना बताने ।
    और तुम्हे अपनी बातो में नचाने
    लो आ गया मैं वोट मांगने ।।

    कुछ नोट दिखाकर वोट खरीदने
    साड़ी कम्बल देके उल्लू बनाने ।
    कुर्सी के चक्कर में देश डुबाने
    लो आ गया मैं वोट मांगने ।।

  • The Mouse in the House

    Below is an incident from my childhood which I remembered today.
     
    “There must be atleast two or three of them.”, said my mother referring to the sightings of rats in our house which had become more frequent in the last few days.
     
    “Yes, at least two. One of them is bigger than the other.”, I replied.
     
    “Let’s set up a trap for them. Otherwise they will become a nuisance.” 
     
    “Ok. Let me go and get them.”, I said as I rushed to the store room to get the mouse trap. “Should I set it up?”, I asked my mother, excited by the idea of baiting and trapping a mouse and rushed towards the refrigerator. I took out a small piece of dried bread from the refrigerator and was fixing it in the trap when my mother interrupted.
     
    “Hey, what are you doing? A cold piece of dried bread? Let me cook a small piece of roti and we will apply some ghee and put it in the trap.”
     
    “What? Roti? Ghee? Why the hell do we want to treat the rats with roti and ghee?”, I shouted as I found it hard to understand.
     
    mouse trap
    A typical mouse trap – Giving them what they want

    “Because we want the mouse to do what we want (enter the trap), we must give them what they want (which is the nice smell of food). They won’t come into the trap if we just lure them with a dried piece of bread. These mice are not foolish. We have to lure them with what they can’t resist, which is the smell of roti and ghee.”

     
    “Ok. If that is how it works.”, I said.
     
    As I recalled this incident from my childhood, I was totally moved by the great lesson it has. My mom very clearly demonstrated that if we want someone to do what we want him to do, we must give him what he wants. But in our daily conversations, how often do we talk about the other person’s needs. We always start our conversations with “This is what I am doing, and this is what I want. And you should do this – buy this, act like this, or some other blah blah blah.” The other person must think on hearing this – “Why the hell in the world do I care about what you want?”
    Only if we can keep in mind what the other person wants and start our conversations with his needs, and without doubt we can get the desired result more easily. Whether it is in sales or business or personal relationships, this one realization can change our lives.
  • बड़ा मजा आये मुझे – II

    घर आके तेरा चहरा देखने में
    रोज़ तेरे साथ बाते करने में
    तेरे हाथो से खाना चखने में
    तेरे हसी के ठहाके सुनने में
    और रह रह कर तुझे छूने में
    बड़ा मजा आये मुझे यह सब करने में ॥

    धीरे धीरे तुझे दिल्ली घुमाने में
    कभी इधर कभी उधर ले जाने में
    तेरे साथ चाट गोल गप्पे खाने में
    अचानक आई बारिश में भीगने में
    और इस रंगीन सफ़र को साथ बिताने में
    बड़ा मजा आये मुझे यह सब करने में ॥

    Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.
    Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.

    रिश्तेदारों के यहाँ खाने को जाने में
    वहा ज़बरदस्ती मीठा मीठा खाने में
    भाई बहनों से ढेर सारी मस्ती करने में
    बड़ो का प्यार और आशीर्वाद लेने में
    और सबसे नज़रे चुराकर तुझे देखने में
    बड़ा मजा आये मुझे यह सब करने में ॥

    तेरे संग आगे जीवन के सपने सजाने में
    हर पल को बीते पल से हसीन बनाने में
    धीरे धीरे तेरे संग पूरी दुनिया देखने में
    तेरे संग दिन महीने और साल गिनने में
    और तेरे साथ तीस चालीस पचास का होने में
    बड़ा मजा आये मुझे यह सब करने में ॥

  • ऐसा पहले होता ना था (Aisa Pahle Hota Na Tha)

    Aisa Pahle Hota Na Tha
    Aisa Pahle Hota Na Tha

    तुझपे इतना प्यार आएगा ,
    ऐसा कभी सोचा ना था
    खुद को भी भूल जाऊ ,
    ऐसा पहले होता ना था ।।

    ऐसा आवारा दिल अपना
    मैंने कभी देखा ना था
    रात को नींद नहीं आये
    ऐसा पहले होता ना था ।।

    आंधी तो बहुत चली
    हवा का ऐसा झोका ना था
    दिन में भी सपने देखू
    ऐसा पहले होता ना था ।।

    मेरी शायरी भी तू पूरी करे
    ऐसा मैंने सोचा ना था
    मैं एक पंक्ति लिखू तू एक
    ऐसा पहले होता ना था ।।

    तेरे प्यार में होगी इतनी कशिश
    ऐसा मैंने सोचा ना था
    एक झलक में किसी की बेहोश
    ऐसा पहले होता ना था ।।

  • ऐसी है मेरी बहना

    थोड़ी चंचल थोड़ी नटखट
    मेरी बहन का क्या कहना
    प्यारी लगे जिसकी हर हरकत
    ऐसी है मेरी प्यारी बहना

    थोडा छेड़ना थोडा हसाना
    मस्ती करके उसे सताना
    मन करे उसके पास ही रहना
    ऐसी है मेरी प्यारी बहना

    A sister is a little bit of childhood that can never be lost.  — Marion C. Garretty
    A sister is a little bit of childhood that can never be lost. — Marion C. Garretty

    कितनी नादान कितनी मासूम
    हर वक़्त ढूंढे उसे मेरे यह नैना
    घर में मचा दे कभी भी धूम
    ऐसी है मेरी प्यारी बहना

    उसका मेरी गोद में बैठ जाना
    भैया भैया कह के बुलाना
    पड़े जिसकी हर शैतानी को सहना
    ऐसी है मेरी प्यारी बहना

    एक दिन उड़ जाएगी यह मैना
    घर किसी और का सजाएगी
    उस दिन तेरी बहुत याद आएगी
    ऐसी है मेरी प्यारी बहना

  • A Walk Around Paris (A poem)

    History culture and pride
    All of it you will notice…
    What is better you can’t decide
    When you take a walk around Paris…

    The galleries and the cafes
    It seems like a sweet promise…
    Your eyes will open up and gaze
    When you take a walk around Paris…

    You will forget your every problem
    And smile amid the deepest of crisis..
    On every street you will feel welcome
    When you take a walk around Paris…

    You will discover your own inner artist
    Whether you are an expert, or a novice
    The warmth makes you forget you’re a tourist
    When you take a walk around Paris…

    Near the Cite Metro Station in Paris
    Near the Cite Metro Station in Paris
  • Seven Things They Are Not Telling You About Narendra Modi (and Gujarat)

    Narendra Modi seems to be the most popular topic on news channels these days. From the old sermons over the 2002 riots to his statements, he is never away from controversy and news. While he might be an enigma, and his personality might be very polarizing, I think we should all support him not for his speeches, his party or his influence, but for the results he has produced in Gujarat. Unfortunately, none of the media channels seem to highlight the progress in Gujarat in a maddening race for TRPs and viewership. It seems people are more interested in watching meaningless debates between a BJP and a Congress politician than knowing about his work and how they can contribute to the state.

    Below are some of the facts which they (media) are not telling all of us about Narendra Modi –

    1. Gujarat has 5% of India’s population but amounts to 21% of India’s exports and gets 20% of the total investment India gets.
    2. Modi has an entire canal of length 19000 km (Sanand Branch Canal) of the Sardar Sarovar Project embedded with solar cells to generate electricity. This will generate electricity and prevent water evaporation from the canal. It is operational with 1MW electricity output and expected to generate 2200 MW of power when completed.
    3. According to a World Bank, Gujarat roads are an example of best practices in road management and are closest to international standards. While the Delhi BRT system has been a big failure, nobody is talking about the Ahmedabad BRT which is a big success with 125,000 people using it daily (even with higher ticketing prices than normal buses). While Delhi has 6 km of BRT, it is spread over 67km and will have 115km when it is completed in 2015. The Indian Government (yes, the one with UPA at power) has given the “Best Mass Rapid Transport System” award in 2009, “Best Innovation Award in Urban Mobility” award in 2010 and “Award of Excellence for best IMTS project” in 2011 to the Ahmedabad BRTS system, apart from a host of international awards. But nobody is talking about that.

    Generating Electricity while Reducing Water Loss
    Generating Electricity while Reducing Water Loss

    4. Kutch was reduced to rubble after the 2001 earthquake. It is now a bustling industrial hub.
    5. Gujarat has 100% power in rural areas too. It has improved the quality of life and business, and halved the government given power subsidy. Yes, reduced to half. While other governments has been demanding votes for doling out subsidies, Gujarat makes a scheme after which subsidy was halved. You decide which is better? And that scheme (Jyotigram Yojana) is set to be adopted by Govt of India now.
    6. According to the infamous Tendulkar report on poverty, 30% of India is below poverty line. According to the same standards, Gujarat’s figure was at 32% in 2004 but is now at 23%.
    7. Gujarat has the biggest gas pipeline networks in India, has the most CNG outlets in the country and consumes more than a third of the total gas consumed by India. It has 2200km gas grid and has a more than 75% share in industrial PNG connections (3100 of 4000 PNG connections in India are in Gujarat).

  • 5 Ways to Have Great Relationships with People Who Matter

    Below are 5 simple ways to have great relationships with people in your life who really matter.

    1. Cut Out the Negative People
    We all have limited time and attention which we can give to people around us. So it is very important that we choose our friends wisely. Otherwise we might end up spending more time with people who are not so important and ignoring other very important ones. We all know people who make our day brighter, and let us to be just who we are. Focus on them, and cut out anybody who is sapping our energy continuously.

    2. Look Beyond First Impressions
    This is one thing I have learned over the years. We all form a first expression of people whom we meet, and many times, these first impressions decide our behavior and actions with them. In the last 8 years my first impressions have been proved wrong many a times. I noticed I have a tendency (as we all do) to judge people based on some prejudices. I have been pleasantly surprised as sometimes a person whom I thought was very cold came across as very sweet and polite, and vice versa. So I tend to give everyone a fair chance these days and not judge anyone too quickly.

    3. Be Good to One and All
    I believe we all have limited time on this planet earth, and while we are here, we can always find enough people to love. We should thrive to act and live out our daily lives as examples of the best we can be. When you are good, it is about you and not the other person. So be good even to those people who speak rudely at us, ignore us or simple aren’t polite. That is the real test of our character. If we can’t bring ourselves to be good to someone, we should at least not be ‘bad’ and get away from that situation quietly without doing any harm.

    Build Friends for Life Wherever You Go
    Build Friends for Life Wherever You Go

    4. Encourage and Support Others
    All of us have a myriad of dreams, but we only follow a few of them. The rest of them are struck down by the world around us, or worse, by ourselves. So whenever we see somebody contemplating a new idea, we should always encourage and support that person to ‘Just Do It’ and take the first forward step. Every new step taken by an individual on a dream will brighten his day (irrespective of success and failure in that step) and make him feel the real joy of living. So the next time you see someone in a dilemma, cheer him up to take action on his dream.

    5. Just be Yourself.. and Be OK with It
    Many a times we change our behavior and actions depending on whom we are with. We might act different when we are with our friends, and different when we are with our colleagues from work. Even with friends, we might have different categories where we act and behave differently. Instead what we can do is just be ourself, without worrying much about how others will perceive our actions. It is OK to be the way we are, and the right people will accept you for who you are. Some people might not be OK with it, but just say “This is the real me” and leave it at that. Over time people will respect you for it.

  • Musings in Paris

    I love my writings, and now that I call myself a writer, I can’t wait to write after anything interesting happens. While I was in Paris recently, I had a lot of such moments, but since I never carried my laptop outside and was too tired when we got back to our hotel, I could do very little writing. The best I could write was a paragraph each day to capture something interesting from the day. Lack of time forced the writing to be short and precise. I am listing some of such musings below which I wrote in Paris –

    “Today I saw two pairs of legs getting out of the metro, and I couldn’t help but follow them. The high heels, the stockings, the red streaks in her blond hair and the clothing breathed of chic fashion from inside out. They walked slowly so I overtook them in no time and turned to take a glance at what I hoped would be faces of two young women. But alas, I was in Paris, and they were at least 60 years old. Yet they had eyebrows properly made, that highlighter type thing was visible on their eyes, and the red lipstick was ever evident. After being in Paris for 4 days now, this doesn’t come as a surprise. Not anymore.”

    “I like to walk, and I like to jog. Especially in a new city. Recently when I was in Jaipur, I went out for a jog at 6 am and got reconnected with the city where I once spent 4 years. Today, on a chilly Sunday morning, I got up early at 7 am (late by my standards, but we are on vacations!) and went out for a jog near my hotel. Being a Sunday and that early, most of the shops were closed and streets deserted except the trash pick-up trucks and some fellow joggers. It’s amazing how much you notice in an early morning jog than you would in an afternoon walk.

    I saw the pick-up trucks doing their job so efficiently, stopping and picking up waste every 100 meters and then holding on to the back of the trucks and moving on. The fellow joggers – I must have seen people from France, US, somewhere in the middle east, another Indian couple, and some Englishmen certainly today morning. I noticed the construction work happening near a metro station I jogged by, and I noticed the closed Carrefour store as well as a MacDonads and Subway restaurant.”

    To Eat Like The French Do Is To Cherish / Enjoy Life
    To Eat Like The French Do Is To Cherish / Enjoy Life

    “I notice that we are zipping past a lot of Parisians as we walk by. We are used to walking fast, living in Delhi and Mumbai. But here people seem relaxed as they walk. Some couples will stop for 10 seconds and steal a passionate kiss, right in front of us. They walk slowly soaking in the cool breeze and the smell of coffee from the roadside cafes. They seem to cherish life and this exact moment unlike us who always seem to be heading somewhere else. That makes me think – where am I going? And do I have to?”

    “I know French, so does my wife. But we speak French like Indians speak any language – in different tones depending on our moods and situation we are in. But it is a totally different experience hearing French words from local people here. At first, I thought they were singing something. They speak so politely and softly, and Francaise anyways is a very phonetic language. Even if they fight (I saw only instance of people arguing), it doesn’t look like an argument.”

    “Bonjour, Bonjour – it means have a good day. I was surprised to get this greeting from people walking on the streets, from people in the metro, from shop owners as we walk pass by their shops. This is the norm here, people just smile and wish others for the day ahead. Paris was cold, but such pleasantries made our days warm. Nobody ever got killed for smiling and wishing a stranger!”

    “These pigeons are fat. Certainly fatter than the ones back home. Some are so fat they can’t even fly. But they are cute, and lovely. They come near you, and look for food. For Parisians treat them as well as they treat themselves. We gave them chocolates, and they were happy eating it off my hand. They sit, walk right beside you without getting scared. Sometimes they fly too!”

    “They wore black dress with armor, which looks similar to the ones I wear when I go long distance on my motorcycle. They had guns too. But the best accessory the French Police was wearing, was their smile. They were on motorbikes, on cycles, on horses and in cars and vans. One child was crying in the Tuilieries Gardens, and two policemen turned around their cycles to check on the guy and his dad. How sweet and poetic!! “

  • Prescription Before Diagnosis

    Scene 1

    “I am having difficulty seeing properly. It seems a haze or cloud cover is between my eyes and the things out there”, said Ramesh, finally sitting in front of the doctor after waiting for two hours outside as the patient queue cleared.

    “Maybe your eye-sight is getting weak. Here, take my glasses. You can use these. I have been using these for many years and they work fine for me. I have an extra pair of glasses at home, I will use those.”, said the doctor.

    Ramesh, a little surprised now, remarked – “But wouldn’t you want to test my eyes first?”. He was certainly expecting a little more after the excruciating wait outside his clinic. “The least they could do was offer tea or coffee to the waiting patients”, he thought as he stared at the doctor’s face.

    “Are you the doctor or me? I have used them for many years. Try these now and see for yourself.”, the doctor said, handing over the glasses to Ramesh.

    “O..o..h..h..k..k”, uttered Ramesh as he reluctantly took the glasses and tried them on. As he expected, his vision got even worse, and he removed the glasses at once.

    “What’s the matter?”, asked the doctor.

    “I couldn’t see anything after putting them on. Now even my head is hurting.”

    “What?? You must not have focused enough. The glasses are perfect, they will work for you too. Just try harder this time.”

    “I am not putting them on again. I thought you would give a prescription after proper diagnosis. Now it looks I am only wasting my time here.”, said Ramesh as he got up and left the doctor’s cabin.

    Don't prescribe before diagnosing
    Don’t prescribe before diagnosing

    Scene 2

    “What’s the matter Neha, you seem unusually quiet today?”, asker her mother as the usually chirpy Neha as not spoken a word since she returned from school this afternoon.

    “Nothing mother”, chirped little Neha.

    “I know there is something. I only care for your welfare, so tell me what is bothering you.”

    “You won’t understand.”

    “Just try it dear. You will only feel better. And I am sure I can relate to whatever is going on in your mind and suggest a way out.”, her mother persisted.

    “Hmm.. Mummy, I just don’t like going to school anymore.”

    “Not feel like going to school anymore? Do you know how much we have sacrificed to make sure you can go to a good school and have a quality education? Your whole future depends on your education, and you don’t feel like going to school anymore?”

    “But it is too hard, Ma”, muttered Neha, realizing that she should have stayed quiet in the first place.

    “Learn something from your elder sister. If you apply yourself in your studies a little harder, even you will start enjoying it. You need to understand education is the foundation your future will be built upon”, said the mother with a tone of her voice finally coming back to normal.

    Neha went back to being quiet.

    Scene 3

    For the third scene, lets imagine a similar scene from our own lives where he have been too quick to pass judgement or offer solutions. A scene where we want the other person to understand our point of view before making any effort to understand theirs. I am sure it would neither be too difficult to recall such a scene nor much different from any of the above scenes.

  • Paris on Foot – Walking and Exploring

    After spending a week in Paris, one thing I enjoyed most was exploring the city on foot. Given my liking to long walks which I developed in Bangalore, I loved to explore and observe all the little details of Paris which is possible only when walking. The luxury of walking without a time line and a destination makes it such a fun activity. You can stop anywhere you want, stare at whatever catches your attention, get into a conversation with locals, or just continue walking. Below are a few highlights of Paris which I explored by walking around.

    We could see people from almost every country
    We could see people from almost every country

    Walking by Siene
    The river Siene is Paris’ lifeblood. It flows right across the center of the city, and most major landmarks are situated around it. A stroll along its banks is the best way to discover Paris anyday. There are numerous bridges along the length of the river, each of a different architecture and historical significance. On both sides of the bridge, there are tourist spots as well as numerous cafes and restaurants. Every pillar, piece of rock or metal is beautifully designed and it is difficult to keep our eyes (or cameras) off them.

    One of the many beautiful bridges across the Siene
    One of the many beautiful bridges across the Siene

    The Cold Wind makes Walk feel even better
    Considering Paris is rather cool throughout the year, there is a cool breeze always blowing. And if it rains, like it did when we were in Paris, the winds can turn to chilly. Walking is the best way to get some body heat and enjoy the beauty that Paris has to offer. It is always refreshing to take detours into the little alleys and absorb the little details.

    A Souvenir shop, discovered only because of walking
    A Souvenir shop, discovered only because of walking

    Walk-able City
    In contrast to our cities back home, Paris comes across as a walkable city. Most of the main sights are close to each other. The streets can be small but there is always a foot path to walk. There are numerous cafes along the way so you can always drop in and take that cup of coffee or beer if you get tired.

    This is arguably the most famous shopping street in the world
    This is arguably the most famous shopping street in the world
    A queue outside the Louis Vuitton store
    A queue outside the Louis Vuitton store

    Arc De Triomphe to Champs Elysees to Tuileries Gardens
    One of the best stretch we walked in Paris was from the Tuileries Gardens to the Arc De Triomphe. The garden is right next to the Louvre, and there were people of all ages relaxing in the sun. After that, we walked on the avenue des champs-elysees which is one of the most popular shopping destinations in the world. We walked there, stopped to see the various branded shops we saw there. There were people from almost every country out there, and I must say it got pretty crowded in the evening. At the end of the avenue we have the Arc De Triomphe, with its unmistaken similarity to our own India Gate.

    Arc de Triomphe - find it familiar?
    Arc de Triomphe – find it familiar?
  • The Little Boy With His Hugs

    There is so much we can learn from little boys and girls if we just observe them play, laugh and cry in their day to day activities. Recently I saw a little boy in a shopping mall with his parents. Suddenly, out of nowhere, he starts running and hugged the left leg of a girl coming from the opposite direction. The girl immediately smiled at seeing this little boy’s smile and innocence, and hugged him back and even lifted him in her arms. The parents looked a little embarrassed at first, but were smiling themselves soon.

    A hug is a great gift - one size fits all, and it's easy to exchange.
    A hug is a great gift – one size fits all, and it’s easy to exchange.

    With the girl gone, the boy started looking for someone to run towards again. Sensing this, his dad said “Now no more running around, hold my hand and walk like a good boy.”

    But before I could look anywhere else, he got his finger free from his father’s grip and starting running again. This time, he crashed into an elderly man who was talking over the phone to somebody, and looked a little tensed or worried.

    “Get off me”, he said to the boy, but you know kids, and he held on.

    “Leave uncle alone, you are hurting him”, said his father as he tried to take him away from the old man. He said sorry to the old man too, in the meanwhile.

    “Ok, I have something here, I will call you later”, said the old man to whoever he was talking to. He then looked at the boy, waved his hand on the boy’s head and smiling at him, said “What is your name?”

    Seeing the old man smiling, the boy loosened his grip, shied a little bit, muttered his name (which I couldn’t hear) and then again held his father’s hand and started walking.

    Sometimes gestures can do more good than any combination of words coming out of our mouths. It seemed that this boy had a gift of hugs, and he went about distributing them to strangers, spreading smiles all around. The world would be a much better place, if we can also focus a little bit more on gestures of love than on words.

  • जब तू बरसे – Jab Tu Barse

    सावन की पहली बारिश से मौसम भी करवट बदले
    टिप टिप बरसती बूंदों से मिट्टी की जब सुगंध उठे
    थके हुए को भी नचवा नचवा के दीवाना बना दे
    ऐ ऊचे अम्बर में रहने वाले बादल, जब तू घन घन बरसे

    कुछ पलो के लिए किसी के भी सारे गिले शिकवे भुला दे
    बारिश के पानी से जो नहाये उसकी सारी थकावट उतार दे
    आसमान ख़ुशी में गरजने लगे, और बिजली भी चमकने लगे
    ऐ ऊचे अम्बर में रहने वाले बादल, जब तू घन घन बरसे

    रिम झिम गिरती बारिश तो गूंगे से भी गीत गँवा दे
    मायूस चहरे भी तेरा नाच देख कर शोर मचा दे
    कोयल भी डाल पर बैठी मीठा मीठा गीत सुना दे
    ऐ ऊचे अम्बर में रहने वाले बादल, जब तू घन घन बरसे

    बारिश में नहाकर बच्चे तो कीचड भरे पानी में कूदने लगे
    ज़िन्दगी की परेशानिया भूलने और सब बंदिशे तोड़ने लगे
    गरम चाय के संग माँ से पकोड़ो की मांग हम करने लगे
    ऐ ऊचे अम्बर में रहने वाले बादल, जब तू घन घन बरसे

    Let the rain kiss you. Let the rain beat upon your head with silver liquid drops. Let the rain sing you a lullaby. Langston Hughes
    Let the rain kiss you. Let the rain beat upon your head with silver liquid drops. Let the rain sing you a lullaby. Langston Hughes
  • The Beauty of Paris

    Paris is often called the “most beautiful”, “most romantic” and the “most artistic” city in the world and I can testify that it did not disappoint us (me and Snneha) when we visited Paris for 8 days last month. When talking about Paris and beauty, it is something very difficult to describe in an article, yet I am going to try. If I have to sum Paris up in one word, it would be “SPECTACULAR”..
     
    Eiffel at Night
    Eiffel at Night

     

     

    What makes Paris spectacular?

     
    Art
    Everything about Paris is artistic, so well designed that you can’t believe some of the details. The perfect blend of modern technology with art with the keen attention to detail – from the Eiffel Tower to every croissant or cappuccino or chocolate you treat yourself with in its numerous roadside cafes.
    Details
    Things which we take for granted, and won’t even notice in our own cities are designed with so much attention to detail that will make you stop and stare at them in astonishment. The exact same design of the branches of each tree on Paris streets makes you astonish in wonder – Is that by design? Details, details and details – they are not overlooked in Paris and that is what makes the experience so magical.
    Food
    If you are a food lover, the choices you will find on Paris streets are endless. From the coffee to the chocolate to the croissants to the cheese, you will be left asking for more every time. The patisseries, the bakeries, the wine shops and open markets all add to its charm. And you can’t leave Paris without tasting their crepes.
    Fashion in Paris
    Fashion in Paris

    People

    While heading back to the airport, we decided to go via the Metro and RER. At the interchange, we had 3 big bags of luggage to tug along the many different staircases on the Metro station. At each and everyone of these, we found a local Parisian who voluntarily (without asking) picked one of our suitcases and carried it over the stairs for us. That speaks more than anything else.
    Heritage
    Paris is a historical city, and how they have preserved their heritage and culture is a lesson to be learned by many other cities. The numerous museums, cathedrals, palaces are icons which are integral to what Paris is. It is not just the tourist attractions, even a glance at the hotels and apartment complexes around Paris will make you realise that there is something unique about them in the way they are designed and constructed.
    Notre Dame Cathedral
    Notre Dame Cathedral
    Fashion
    Any description of Paris can be incomplete without Shopping and Fashion. Among the top 4 cities of the world for shopping (along with Milan, New York and London), it is home to numerous global brands like Dior, Yves Saint Laurent, Chloe, Louis Vuitton, Cartier, L’Oreal and Sephora, among many others. You can notice the affinity for fashion among its citizens if you take a stroll across any Paris street. And it is not just the younger ones, and a sight sixty year old women in a mini-skirt and with make up all over their face is not uncommon at all.
    More to follow..
  • The Perfect Road Trip

    I believe that there is no better way to see and experience the beach, the snow clad mountains, or the plains than from behind a automobile, be it a two or a four wheeler. With every glance of a long weekend, you know the time has come to pack your bags and head off in one or the other direction. Sometimes it is the destination that matters, but most of the times it is the journey that makes the drive worth it. The sheer sensation when you feel the cool breeze turn into chilly winds as you ride up the hills, or the experience of breathing fresh air that you can never find in cities is unmatchable. Needless to say, the best way to experience rain is get out of your vehicle and get drenched.

    My idea of a perfect road trip has three components – the vehicle, the company you have and the where and how of reaching your destination.

    The Company
    If I recall my most memorable trips, it has been because of the people I have for company. The fun I had with my colleagues at Jim Corbett Park in 2006, then with a different set of colleagues at Mashobra in 2008 was unforgettable. My recent trip to Paris with my wife also ranks high up because of the wonderful company I had. It is the company which decides how many memories you will carry back and how you will remember a trip after a few years. My idea of a perfect company could be two – One with a group of friends/family and another with your partner/spouse. One could be about adventure, fun and leg pulling while the other can be about romantic walks and quite evenings. While one can be crazy, the other can be mesmerizing. While one can be loud, the other can be serene. While one can help you feel the thrill of living each moment, the other can remind you of the beauty that is love and to enjoy the various serendipitous moments it might offer.

    The Scorpio can be your ideal vehicle for a drive up the Himalayas
    The Scorpio can be your ideal vehicle for a drive up the Himalayas

    The Destination and the Journey
    The second most important component to any trip is the where and how to reach there. Precisely, where is the destination that one is heading to, and how are you going to reach there? Sometimes it is the destination that builds the whole excitement, like Paris yet at other times it is the journey and the path you take to your destination which builds up all the excitement. My perfect journey would be from Delhi to Leh by road. One could take the route from Srinagar while going and return via Manali, experiencing the best of the Kashmir and Himachal. The drive through some of the most beautiful and scenic mountain ranges, and the thrill of seeing cliffs on one side is a sight not to be missed. The fresh air, the clean and cold water flowing in the form of rivers and small rivulets which turn into waterfalls at every fall will make you imagine the scene even while reading this. The stopping at various photo points, interacting with locals and knowing their culture all adds to the experience of the journey. The Himalayas let us soak and absorb its beauty into our soul, and not just our external senses, and that is what makes a trip to Leh from Delhi the perfect road trip ever.

    The Vehicle
    After you have finalized on the destination, the route and the people whom you are traveling with, the last (but not the least) important component of a great journey is deciding on your vehicle. The above two components have a big say in deciding what kind of vehicle you choose. There is a altogether different kind of fun in going together in a bus (with a group) or in a small hatchback or sedan if it is just the two of you. My ideal vehicle would be a SUV which can be multi-purpose and can serve as a private space for the two of you while also as the perfect vehicle for a group. For my dream trip to Leh, a Mahindra Scorpio (which I have had the pleasure to drive on many occasions) would be just the perfect choice. It can navigate the plains with potholes as well as the climb up the mountains on tricky surfaces with equal ease. Apart from the versatility of the Scorpio, the height of the driver gives you a commanding view of the landscape and the road.

    Apart from these components, there are other stuff like a navigation device, extra pair of batteries for mobiles and cameras, maps, local currency in cash and the knowledge of the local language goes a long way in eliminating and reducing any discomfort or hiccup we might encounter on the way. To sum it up, nothing could be better than a trip to Leh on a SUV with either your friends or your partner (or both) for company.

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